Honesty and One Heck of a Response : Newcastle Hypnotherapy Practice Group

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This April Newcastle Hypnotherapy Practice Group is combining some Provocative Coaching with some Patterns of reformulation ( aka Sleight of Mouth ) to get to the meat or Zen of something spontaneous and genuine and then reframing or re-meaning the perceived problem,as in you get it different.

Last Wednesday I met up with my friend and mentor Phil Jeremiah, In Newcastle late at night ( at least for me ) and over coffee and a tomato juice with Wooster sauce, we shared some ideas. All this happened with as can be imagined, a little provocation and semi-structured spontaneous humour.


Provocative Therapy Humour Worx

In case you don’t know Phil is the best congruent practitioner of Provocative Therapy I have met. Phil is in Newcastle this July to share his Provocative Humour Worx methodology. So from this I will be sharing two powerful patterns Phil taught ( demonstrated ) with me at the Newcastle Hypnotherapy Practice Group.

Following on from this, having just about extruded a honest and genuine response, as I like to move ideas across seemingly fragmented domains, we will be utilising the Patterns of Reformulation, originally modeled by Robert Dilts from Bandler. A series of ‘patterns’ which are kind of all about changing the meaning ( meant or offered ) to, obviously, change the structure of thinking and produce neurological change.

Let’s take such a statement as ‘I can’t lose weight because of my genetics‘.

Some of the Patterns of Reformulation include exploring such labels as :

Prior Cause :

  • ‘No its not that, it’s because you love food more than your husband’
  • ‘Well you say that but you like to be cuddly.’
  • ‘Nope, it’s cause you were dropped on your head as a child.’

Intention

  • ‘I think its all about you wanting to be loved for who you are.’
  • ‘You just want to protect yourself with padding.’
  • ‘It’s because you like to have a physical presence that can’t be ignored.’

Metaphor / Analogy

  • ‘Genetics has so little to do with this, but you like a scientific exploration of a lie.’
  • ‘Tie two birds together, four wings and can’t fly. What?’
  • ‘But you are a perfect product of god and society!’

 

All about doing enough concussion to the verbal descriptions to help reformulate the internal maps in a useful way. Come along and explore some different ways of change at the Newcastle Hypnotherapy Practice Group this April.

 

Facilitator : Nigel Hetherington

Entry Level : Open To All

Places are limited to 24 so book in advance to guarantee your place

Wednesday April 4th

Come join in and explore in a warm, comfortable purpose built training environment.

The Newcastle NLP and Hypnotherapy Practice Group, The Trance Cafe meets at

St Oswalds, Coleman Education Centre, Regent Avenue, Regent Centre, Gosforth. NE3 1EE

ONLINE BOOKING ONLY!

tea / coffee & biscuits included
7-9pm for only £10.00 book online now!





NLP Meta Model : Newcastle NLP Practice Group : Newcastle Hypnotherapy Practice Group

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OK so its’ SnOw and lots of it. Its freezing and that orange mime ( spiral dynamics ) president of the united states has just confirmed his isolationist, supremacists and circling, U Turn ideas on gun control in America. How much of this is fake news? How much are you inferring and what are your judgements? NLP Meta Model is a tool to touch your reality as real, made up or somewhere in between.

This Trance Cafe, Newcastle NLP Practice Group will be focusing and clarifying how we as people respond and react emotionally and ‘critically’ to our own biases, inferences and judgements. Our biases, inferences and judgements are how we make our Map of the World. Which may be wildly inaccurate at worst or at best help us create and shape a more connected and relational way of being to all of our human race.

The March Newcastle NLP Practice Group will be exploring the kind of personal Maps that are supporting and maintaining problems in our life. By rigorously exploring the differences in what happened, what is being inferred and rules this seems to maintain we are exploring how to change perceptions.

Since December last year I have been re-reading many of the books that were the beginning of my NLP journey, which began around 2002. One of the gems is Language In Thought And Action by Sam Hayakawa originally published in 1939. This in some sense accurately describes ( based in Korzybski General Semantics ) the ideas that support the NLP Meta Model.

Hayakawa’s chapter on Report, Inference and Judgement is close to the NLP version I was introduced to as Description, Interpretation and Evaluation. You could also use the words, very carefully as fact, personal-societal meaning and the law.

The way I understand the NLP Meta Model is that the model provides tools to re-connect with an actual description of events and makes clear the interpretations and evaluations, based on personal experiences, beliefs and interpretations that have in some sense solidified and experience into a personal story.

I have been describing the NLP Meta Model as a double edged sword with a sharp handle for well over a decade, closer to two decades but who is counting? As James Pennybaker has demonstrated, the stories we constantly describe and tell have the power to totally transform our life and the lifes we connect with.

Moving on from the NLP Meta Model into the worlds of reframing as in the NLP world as Sleight of Mouth ( Dilts ) and one of my mentors Christina Hall ( patterns of reformulation ) we can begin to respectfully challenge our beliefs and explore a deeper and more profound meaning in our life.

If you re-read that first paragraph, you will see, judgements, interpretations and what could be described as verifiable facts. This may be how you are categorising you own map of your territory. The possibilities are vast, what if you can genuinely update your maps to reflect ore of what you would love to be sharing with this world?

Facilitator : Nigel Hetherington

Entry Level : Open To All

Places are limited to 24 so book in advance to guarantee your place

Wednesday March 7th

Come join in and explore in a warm, comfortable purpose built training environment.

The Newcastle NLP and Hypnotherapy Practice Group, The Trance Cafe meets at

St Oswalds, Coleman Education Centre, Regent Avenue, Regent Centre, Gosforth. NE3 1EE

ONLINE BOOKING ONLY!

tea / coffee & biscuits included
7-9pm for only £10.00 book online now!